STEP1
Acknowledge the positive. Research proves that if you compliment others in your life, your relationships will improve. Use the 5 to 1 ratio to improve your relationships. For every negative thing a person in your life says, counter it with five positive compliments. Be specific in your compliments, but don't sound phony. Say things like, "You look very attractive in that shirt."

STEP 2

Share your "red-face moments." For example, share the times in your life where you were embarrassed. "One time I made a total fool of myself while doing a presentation when...." The people in your life will immediately feel affection toward you. Mostly everyone can relate to feelings of fear and inadequacy.

STEP 3

If you want to get an important point across, make sure to gently squeeze the person on the arm first. Physical contact greatly improves relationships. This technique works amazing well with men.

STEP4

Ask people in your life a lot of questions, and make sure to listen. Research proves that the more questions you ask, the closer you relationships will be.


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